While watching Real Housewives of Atlanta, I came across a moment that deeply struck me: a surrogate revealed she had been diagnosed with breast cancer during pregnancy. It was a heart-wrenching reminder that life doesn’t press pause—not even during one of the most sacred times: motherhood in the making.
Inspired by a Real Housewives of Atlanta story that hit close to home.
🎬 Where It Started
So, I wanted to write this blog for every mama, every daughter, every woman who might one day face the unthinkable.
🩺 Can You Get Breast Cancer While Pregnant?
Yes. Breast cancer can—and does—occur during pregnancy, though it’s rare (about 1 in 3,000 pregnancies). It’s called Pregnancy-Associated Breast Cancer (PABC). The challenge? Normal pregnancy changes like swollen breasts or tender lumps can easily hide the signs.
⚠️ When to Seek Help
Don’t assume any lump is “just hormonal.” See your doctor if you notice:
Early detection is your best weapon.
đź—“ Treatment Options by Trimester
Every case is unique, but here’s a general guide:
First Trimester (Weeks 1–12)
âś… Focus: Safely remove the tumor and delay additional treatment until the second trimester if possible.
Second Trimester (Weeks 13–26)
âś… Focus: Balanced approach between maternal health and fetal safety.
Third Trimester (Weeks 27–40)
âś… Focus: Time delivery safely and transition to aggressive postpartum treatment.
đź‘¶ What About the Baby?
Studies show that most babies exposed to chemotherapy after the first trimester are born healthy. However, close monitoring with a maternal-fetal medicine team is crucial throughout the pregnancy.
đź’¬ A Word From the Heart
If you’re facing this diagnosis or know someone who is: you are not alone. You are strong enough to grow life while fighting for your own. And you deserve a team that listens, supports, and fights alongside you.
📌 Final Thoughts
Breast cancer during pregnancy is terrifying—but treatment is possible. With early detection, specialized care, and a supportive community, you can do both: fight cancer and become a mom.
đź’— Share this post with someone who needs hope today.
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